BBW Dating is fun for many people. For others, the idea of curvy dating can be downright terrifying. Meeting new people, having an awkward conversation, having a hot date with someone, only to be heartbroken, for some, all of these are better fates than leaving home. Some people hate getting into work and want to skip the process altogether and jump right into it.
Which one are you? Do you hate hookup dating? Or are you just struggling to get off the couch?
The feeling of a first date
How do you usually feel before you go out on a date? Most people feel anxious. It can be a mixture of anxiety, excitement, or direct nervousness. This is normal. Everyone hates to sit across from a stranger and ask platitude questions while pretending to be perfectly normal about the whole situation. This is a rough setup, but this is how we're going to get to know people in 2020.
If you're a lazy person, you may find these first date conversations worthwhile, not only because they're a bit dull, but because you want the other person to impress you. A lazy person doesn't bother to ask insightful questions or laugh at himself. You rely on your date to do that for both of you. Sure, you might line up, but you don't make the first move. Be honest: you're accepting. The truth is, your date is looking for the right person for you. If you don't go on a date with curious questions and lots of energy, your curvy date is going to suck.
Are you short-tempered?
Patience is a virtue, especially in a relationship, but it is often overlooked in BBW dating. Most people aren't willing to play the long game and take their time, especially if they hate dating. You may find yourself liking someone quickly because you don't want to stay another second. However, it does take time to get to know a person and build a foundation. So, even if you hate chubby dating, trying to enjoy the process will allow you to progress and help you weed out those who aren't right for you.
If you're a lazy dater, you'll not only lose patience with plus size dating, but you'll also expect to see fireworks right away. If you don't feel the spark right away, you'll use it as a legitimate excuse not to spend more time and energy getting to know anyone. On the other hand, if you do feel the spark, you'll also assume that this person is already that person, so it won't require any more attention or energy because the connection is already there. Well, tell me again, why are you single?
Do you want a date?
Love-hate relationships often find time to take a break and recharge before reconnecting. That's because if you want a relationship, you have to stay in the game. How else will people know you're single and ready to date? That means not only signing up for chubby dating apps, but also being ready to go to StarBucks. A lazy person will not sign up for BBW dating apps, and when they step into the world, they will not have the slightest curiosity about other people. And one more thing, if you're on the couch watching Netflix every Saturday night, how can you expect to meet your significant other? Even an occasional effort to do something outside your daily routine will expand your chances of meeting new people.